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145th day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius

MISSING CHILD
15/11/2013
ABDUCTED FROM HIS SAFE AND PEACEFUL HOME & FATHER’S PROTECTION BY HIS MOTHER: 15/11/2013

PHYSICALLY ABUSED BY MOTHER (AND WITNESSED BY FATHER): 15/11/2013
EXPOSED TO RISK OF FURTHER PHYSICAL HARM: 22/12/2013 

EXPOSED TO RISK OF CHILD SEX ABUSE: FEB 2014
NAME UNLAWFULLY CHANGED

UNLAWFULLY DRUGGED

UNLAWFULLY CONTRACTED (ENSLAVED)

UNLAWFULLY HELD CAPTIVE AT AN UNKNOWN LOCATION

145 Days of abuse of my son by his malicious mother: DEBORAH STEWART – 1 of 3
145 Days of abuse of my son by his malicious mother: DEBORAH STEWART – 2 of 3
145 Days of abuse of my son by his malicious mother: DEBORAH STEWART – 3 of 3

— CHILD ABDUCTOR AND ABUSER —

DEBORAH JANE STEWART
WEST YORKSHIRE AREA


— CHILD ABDUCTOR AND ABUSER —

ABDUCTED, ABUSED, RENAMED, DRUGGED AND ENSLAVED OUR DEFENCELESS CHILD FOR 21 WEEKS. 

ATTEMPT TO SUBJECT CHILD TO FATHERLESSNESS AND POVERTY.

ABDUCTING (AND HOLDING A CHILD HOSTAGE), THEFT OF £10,000, FALSE ALLEGATIONS, FALSIFYING EVIDENCE,  MISLEADING POLICE AND COURTS, MALICE, CONTACT DENIAL, PARENTAL ALIENATION, CHILD ABUSE!
It’s been 145 Days since my child’s mother DEBORAH STEWART, OTLEY, WEST YORKSHIRE ran away with our child and all our money. For 145 Days DEBORAH STEWART has kept my son and me apart by making up false allegations, attempting to frame me to falsify supporting evidence, misleading police and courts with false and malicious complaints and lies, registering our son’s birth without me on the birth certificate AND THE LIST GOES ON AND ON AND ON. She continues our abducted child at an unknown location and refuses to communicate with me.

EVERYONE surrounding my child, Police, courts, her family and friends, child protection services, child health professionals, EVERYONE. Has completely lost my TRUST because they refuse to communicate with me, let me know where my child is OR EVEN TELL ME IF HE IS STILL ALIVE. The emotional torment and torture this is causing me is unbearable. It is highly unlawful and unconstitutional AND SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO CONTINUE FOR ANOTHER DAY!

Since the 15th November 2013 my child’s mother has been campaigning to keep me and my son apart. I am aware of no lawful reason why she want to do this. It seems evident that she wanted a child and money only or she is completely incapable of parenting and especially incapable of co-parenting our child. She is alienating and attempting to discredit and criminalise me because I WITNESSED HER PHYSICALLY HARMING OUR CHILD AND I LEARNT HER FATHER IS A KNOWN RISK TO CHILDREN!
Me and my son in our home and life of peace. 
His malicious, calculating mother (in the background with her fake, deceiving, smile. No doubt scheming up ways to abduct our son from his home and father and alienate me (with her child-abusing, incestuous father).


142nd day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius

142 Days Since MY SON, Milo Allodius ApStewart, was physically harmed and abducted from his home and father by his erratic, malicious, psychotic, mentally unwell mother. My abducted son is still being help captive at an unknown location and has been enslaved (contracted) and drugged by his misguided mother (and the British Government), without even consulting me on the terms of the agreement or what drugs and chemicals are being inserted into MY SON’s body. My abducted, captive, abused, renamed, enslaved, drugged child is left in the care of a child molester while his reckless mother ignores and alienates me, misleads authorities into helping her force fatherlessness onto our child and goes out drinking and taking drugs.

A skype call with my abducted son from the unknown location he is being held captive, 
prior to total cut off and denial of contact by his malicious abusive mother. 

I have been directed by West Yorkshire police not to contact my child’s mother again as it will constitute harassment. They have helped her in her campaign to alienate me from my abducted son by facilitating her false and misleading complaint and very unnecessarily given her a panic alarm and advising her to seek a court order to keep me from my son, WITHOUT ANY CAUSE OR REASON! Portraying me to be a threat. I am the only one being threatened, with 5 years in jail by Leads Crown Court if I contact my child’s mother (even by email) so that I can continue asking to know if my child is still alive and where he has been taken. 

I do not want to make any complaints or applications to the court, I do not intend for my child’s sick mother to be criminalised or sectioned for the physical harm she caused our child during her psychotic episode or her overall poor mental health and malicious efforts to keep me and my son apart or even her crimes misleading authorities. Even when she is willing to go as far as misleading our landlord to illegally evict me from our family home while she re-houses our abducted child at an unknown location. Or the fact she’s mislead the police with a malicious complaint to have me unlawfully arrested for harassment for simply emailing her asking to see my son. Or misleading the courts (with 30+ lies in one application) to further disincentive me from continuing to try and love and care for my son, continuing to want to father and co-parent and continue to appeal to his sick mother to stop harming us both in this way, for no lawful reason. The only reason being a malicious attempt to discredit and alienate me as I have learnt her father is a child molester and I was witness to her harming our child. 

The authorities, my child’s mother and her family are completely ignoring me and the concerns I have raised about THE FACT my son has been physically harmed by his mother during an erratic episode and that her father is a child molester and that my child has been abducted by them both, mine and my son’s money STOLEN, my child exposed to further harm and sexual abuse by his malicious, lying, drug-abusing, mentally unwell mother and child molesting grandfather. 

A mother that is unable to support our child or offering him any quality of life. A mother who abducted our child from his home and father and life of peace without anything else in place, no money (other than the money stolen) no job, no income, no maternity leave. NOTHING. My child’s mother is highly dependant on others for care and support because she so unable to unwilling to work, save, etc. She is emotional wreck and completely unable operate in an intradependant adult relationship, let alone to co-parent OR PROPERLY PARENT OR PROVIDE for our child. My child’s mother obstructs my son from receiving my love and care and support and money and seeks to raise our child with EVERYONE BUT ME, THE FATHER. 

I am still offering my son a home, my love and care in the UK. Despite me being illegally evicted, alienated from my son for 20 weeks and chased from the country with the threat of being locked up for 5 years for continuing to broadcast these crimes against me and my son and my continued willingness to be a father. Even in this horrific situation that my child’s malicious mother and her child-molesting father (and a highly unlawful and unconstitutional British Government) have subjected me and my son to….. I continue to maintain a home for me AND  MY SON IN THE UK and my willingness to father him at my current location, in my current situation, in the Caribbean. And for each day my son is being kept from his home and father I am working to house and father a similarly deprived child at an orphanage I helped open up, in the local town.

I continue to Blog and YouTube my appeals and desire to continue fathering and co-parenting my son who I very much love and care for. (Even at the risk of arrest and 5 years in prison by an unlawful and unconstitutional British Government). NOBODY WILL TELL ME WHERE MY CHILD IS OR IF HE’S EVEN STILL ALIVE. 142 Days AND COUNTING of emotional torment and torture for a powerless father and abuse of my abducted, captive, enslaved, drugged, abused DEFENCELESS child.

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 1 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 2 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 3 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 4 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 5 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 6 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 7 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 8 of 9

Day 141 of being an alienated father – Part 9 of 9

Day 142 of being an alienated father

135th day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius

For the last 19 WEEKS my son and I have been obstructed from living in peace, in our country and home together.  The malicious mothers campaign to keep us apart involves false allegations and complaints to mislead authorities, illegal eviction, unlawful arrest, unconstitutional court orders,  child abduction and parental alienation.  
My son, Milo Allodius ApStewart was born on the 6th October 2013.
He lived at home in peace, with both his parents until the 15th of November 2013.
As part of his mother’s malicious, pre-planned agenda, to have a fatherless child and money, Deborah Stewart abducted him from his father and home and stole all the money. She has since campaigned to make my son fatherless when I am STILL TO THIS DAY continuing to offer my son his father, my love and care and even our home from which he was abducted and I am being illegally evicted ( by a mislead landlord). Deborah Stewart and her child molesting father have made a multitude of attempts to make my defenceless 7 month old child, fatherless AND alienate me, the child’s powerless, loving and caring father.
  

David (Child Molesting Grandad) and Deborah Stewart (Malicious Mother)
7 Newall Mount, Otley, West Yorkshire, LS21 2DY

INCESTUOUS, MALICIOUS, CHILD-ABDUCTING

…..CHILD ABUSERS ! OF MY CHILD!
Deborah Stewart is heavily misguided, mentally unwell, abusive and is the daughter of a child molester. I have made no attempt to criminalise my child’s mother, I only asked she admit I did nothing to cause them harm as she alleged and seek professional help. I continue to appeal to her good nature but she doesn’t seem to have a conscience, soul or care in the world for the well being of our child. Her and her father seem focused on discrediting me so that they are not exposed and they are doing it at the expense of my son. 

So I am collating evidence (hacking call archives, intercepted communications etc) in order to prove how ‘AT RISK’ my child is with his sick mother and child-molesting grandfather who have attempted to falsify information and evidence and mislead police, courts and other authorities. As well as our friends and community. 


Here’s the succession of EVIDENT attempts to mislead and deceive the court, to obtain an unwarranted order to further obstruct me from my own abducted child. 

This sick and malicious, CRIMINAL, mother is relentless!


Applicant Alleges

Fact & Evidence
“we met in August 2012”  Falsified information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court. 

We met on Friday 13th August 2010. ‘respondent’ skipped his great-grandmother’s funeral for the opportunity of meeting ‘the applicant’. Online conversation started 22nd December 2010.

 
More evidence to come (photo’s of us making pasties, with date stamps) 
“We separated on the 15th November 2013”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

‘respondent’ returned home to find himself locked out and the child abducted. False allegations of threats circulated, (until ‘applicant’ rescinded the allegations in March 2014). This was the first effort to alienate the parent and the first sign of abuse of the child!

Call Recording: 12/12/13 15:35

“I was hopeful we could resolve our problems/ differences” False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Applicant made not attempt to move toward a solution. Only conflict and continued escalation of the separation of the child from his father and home.

Call Recording: 12/12/13 17:36

“One child together, Milo Stewart” False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Child’s equitable title has been disregarded and a legal title unlawfully ascribed (by way of abduction of child and alienation of the non-consenting parent). Child’s identity is ‘Milo Allodius ApStewart

Evidence coming soon….

“On a number of occasions he left” False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court. 

On 1st occasion  ‘respondent left because of ‘applicant’ demanded such. Late December 2012.

Evidence coming soon….

On 2nd occasion. ‘Respondent left because ‘the applicant’ was being threatening.




“Respondent became increasingly erratic and threatening. Fear for the health, safety and well-being of both myself and my son”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court. 

Applicant is the one with erratic, threatening behaviour. Fear is false, malicious and used to control. “OUR SON” purposefully left from application to mislead the court.“Your’re not a threatening person”, “I am a very emotional person”. “You’re either in or out of his life!…it won’t be with Milo”

Call  Recording: 12/12/13 15:35

“reluctantly allowed medical assistance when Milo became overdue” False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

‘respondent’ arranged private health care, by her side during ALL visits to the hospital. 100% supportive.

“Throughout labour, despite my worries, you were absolutely amazing and fantastic”, “you we’re incredibly supportive and fantastic throughout the whole labour”

Call  Recording: 12/12/13 15:35
& midwife & health visitor notes
(obtainable by way of data request) 

“Did not want the family to visit in hospital” False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

No family visit to hospital was discussed because the birth was at home. The visit to the hospital was only as an emergency and was brief. Check-in to check-out was under 24h, 14h of that didn’t permit visitors and 4 hours was labour and theatre. ‘respondent’ rode in the ambulance, left after the birth due to visiting hours and return to collect child and mother next day.

Voice Note Mobile Recordings: 07/10/2013 – Evidence coming soon….

Complaint of Harassment to police Malicious Complaint. No supporting evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the police.

Evidence show’s that on the 4th Feb 14 Deborah stopped communicating with the ‘respondent’ (after depleting her succession of excuses as to why the alienated father couldn’t see his abducted child). The false complaint to mislead the police escalated the effort to keep the child and his father apart. 

Evidence coming soon….

“attempt to cut me off from my family and isolate me”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.


Evidence show’s the ‘respondent’ was cut off from his family and isolated, to ensure the mother was not! Family we’re welcomed and encouraged to visit often. 3 times a week. ‘applicant’ physically isolated and obstructed father and child from HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

Evidence coming soon….

“The respondent did not want to register the birth” 
False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Evidence show’s that respondent did conditionally accept the invitation to register birth. 

Evidence in the link above. 

“Lit sparkler(s)”
False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Lit ONE sparkler. ‘respondent’ is also more qualified in fire safety than ‘the applicant’. And can be trusted with lighting a fire and a child’s sparkler. Implied risk and ‘fear’ is malicious and misleading. 

VIDEO EVIDENCE of incident to follow.

“The whole behaviour of the respondent was controlling and bullying”, said “things would not be the same”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

 ‘defendant only calmly expressed his ‘ denial of consent’ due to the rational dialogue already in progress with the registry office.  (while relaxing in a sleeping position on the sofa). quote was “if you proceed to abruptly register our child without his father on his birth certificate, things would ‘not be good’ between his parents”. 

Controlling and bullying party is, IN FACT, the ‘applicant’. On the 15th November the ‘applicant was violently and quiet frighteningly, gripping the child in the bedroom, to obstruct the long standing and scheduled visit of THE FIRST of the father’s friends who came to meet his son with their child. Witness statement confirms this.

‘respondent does not have a driving licence, demanded I give him my car keys’ False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

 ‘respondent’ kindly asked that the location of the hidden car keys be unveiled so he could attend to his business meeting.  ‘Respondent’ DOES have a driving licence and is a more qualified and SAFE as a driver than the applicant.

Evidence coming soon…

My former partner is ‘Sion Hywel Buckler”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

‘respondent’ operates under his equitable title  “Hywel ApBuckler” (under common law jurisdiction). Not with Legal title. “Hywel ApBuckler” ‘the respondent’, does not identify with his legal fiction/ title, nor has he acted within his legal capacity in this matter. ‘the respondent’ did not conceive his child, nor wishes to father HIS CHILD, as a ‘function of Government’.

Evidence coming soon…

“We separated on the 15th November 2013”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Applicant LOCKED OUT the ‘respondent’ on the 15th Nov 2013 and alienated him from his son with false allegations of threatening behaviour, which the applicant refused to rescind until the 7th March 2014.

 “He has never been physically threatening”

‘break-up’ email from Debs was 21/12/13. Being ‘Dumped’ was verbally confirmed on the 26/12/13.

“Hopeful we could resolve our differences 18th Dec 2013” Application to the court.

“I was hopeful we could resolve our problems” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Evidence Coming Soon…..
“Shocked and incredibly upset, respondent went through her purse and attempted to use her bank card. He left the property once again” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court. 

Applicant HID petty cash to obstruct a business meeting (As part of her frequent. melodramatic, dramatised erratic episode) and had ALL OF THE CASHFLOW in her bank accounts. (£9.8k+) .

In addition to the car and house keys and cash being hidden, so to were the phones. This made it made it extremely difficult to locate the business associate when arriving in town.

The highly inconvenienced ‘respondent’ returned home to use the house phone, only to have to return back to town at the place of the meeting. Witness statement confirms this.

Attempt were made to obtain petty cash to entertain the business associate by ‘going through the applicants purse to locate a bank card’.

Applicant blocked card and it was swallowed by cash machine before ‘respondent’ could obtain cashflow to entertain his client. The withdrawal attempt was also minimal.

More evidence Coming Soon…..  

“crying in the bedroom” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

‘applicant was violently and quiet frighteningly, GRIPPING the child in the bedroom, to obstruct the long standing and scheduled visit of THE FIRST of the father’s friends who came to meet his son with their child. Witness statement confirms this.

“I could not cope with the behaviour of the respondent”  Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

The behavioural issues that day were ALL from the applicant. She was erratic and frightened DUE TO THE rumoured-consequences of non-registration of a birth, her poor understanding of law and peer pressure from the wider community. She failed in her attempts to disrupt the ‘respondents’ working day. Despite her DIRECTLY controlling attempts.

Evidence to come …..

“threatened to have me thrown out of the house” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

Evidence shows that enquiries were made with local estate agents for a neighbouring 2nd property which Deborah could live in as a result of her position and allegation that the ‘respondent’ was a threat. This was done so that the ‘respondent’ could return to his child and home without further recourse or incident while ‘applicant’ dealt with her mental issues away from the safety and peace of the child, home and father.

Evidence coming soon….

“Respondents behaviour has intensified since the incident on the 27th Dec 2013”  False information. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

This incident on the 27th Dec 13 was the pinnacle of the ‘respondents behaviour’. He was only preparing his property for disposal,  to gain probable cause, to prove the applicant was deceiving and misleading.

FOLLOWING HER FALSE ALLEGATIONS (AND ATTEMPT TO FALSIFY EVIDENCE BY FRAMING THE ‘DEFENDANT’) TO SUPPORT HER FALSE CLAIM. AND FOLLOWING HER ABDUCTING AND RE-HOUSING THE ABDUCTED CHILD AND KEEPING THE CHILD AND FATHER APART FOR 2 MONTHS (INCLUDING CHRISTMAS DAY) 

A call was made to a close friend and family of the ‘applicants’ family WHILE THIS LAWFUL ACT WAS IN PROGRESS.

https://soundcloud.com/hywelapbuckler/27-12-2013-call-recording

“the respondent can email me up to 10 times a day. I’m frightened of what he will do next” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

“he has always been controlling” Not True. Not found in evidence. Attempt to deceive and mislead the court.

‘respondent’ is not controlling in his nature. Open, supportive and understanding type. Only ever expressing only ‘preferences’. Not threatening, controlling or bullying.

“a gentle man always so enthusiastic about his work, this enthusiasm only matched in his expectation of what fatherhood would bring.  He has so far been robbed of that privilege undeservedly and with malice.  Repeat attacks on his character wholly unjustified.  I hope this statement goes some way to restoring my friends image and helps in his fight to see his son”. Witness statement

Call Recording: 12/12/13 15:35
Call Recording: 12/12/13 17:36


Applicant is also dishonest with her OWN FAMILY.
……… As found in EVIDENCE! 

Applicant attempts to betray her own brother and sister-in-law, who confided in her with a secret – “I’ll tell you but I don’t want you to say anything to them (brother and wife)” — Call Recording: 12/12/13 17:36

Applicant lies to her father Boxing Day – “I called taxi’s, they’re all too busy. You’ll have to come and pick me up” — (No attempt made to call a taxi)


Applicant  lies to her father December about stolen money. 

Applicant is frequently confused and suffers memory loss and erratic ‘seizure-type’ episodes due to years of drug abuse, child molestation from her father AND a life-threatening head injury as a consequence of her reckless, undisciplined, lifestyle.

  
  

I will also be gathering evidence to show that child abuse and parental alienation exists as a pattern in their family. More to come, stay tuned.

 Lots of call archives, emails and messages to hack so that I can expose this malicious, sick, child abusing family. 

1. Parental Alienation


2. Scheming, pre-planning, malicious, calculated, ill-motivated, drug-abusing, deceiving family who operate in bad faith. ALL CONFIRMED BY THEIR FAMILY FRIEND OF 30 YEARS.

https://soundcloud.com/hywelapbuckler/27-12-2013-call-recording

31/03/2014 – Update

Still no communication from my child’s mother, her family or authorities …
LETTING ME KNOW WHETHER OR NOT MY ABDUCTED CHILD IS EVEN STILL ALIVE OR WHERE HE’S BEING HELD CAPTIVE.

Still no admission or apology from my child’s mother for misleading landord, police and courts.
SO THIS VILIFICATION, CRIMINALISATION AND ILL TREATMENT/ HANDLING OF ME STOPS.

Still no confirmation from police or courts that unlawful and unconstitutional warrants (generated from unfounded, falsified, malicious and misleading applications and complaints) have been quashed, withdrawn or dropped SO THAT I CAN RETURN TO MY COUNTRY AND LIVE ON MY BIRTH LAND IN PEACE.

Still no key from my landord who changed my locks, in my absence, without my consent.
SO THAT I CAN RETURN TO MY HOME AND LIVE IN PEACE.

Still no indication that my child’s mother will return my son to his father and home.
SO THAT WE CAN RESUME OUR LIFE OF PEACE TOGETHER IN OUR HOME.

136 DAYS OF EMOTIONAL TORMENT AND TORTURE. 
136 DAYS OF ABUSE OF MY CHILD. 

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130th day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius

Someone PLEASE PLEASE TELL ME …

IS MY ABDUCTED CHILD STILL ALIVE?
WHERE IS HE BEING HELD CAPTIVE?

131st day apart from my child. 131st day of emotional torture and torment. 


130 days since my son was abducted, since I saw him last – Part 1/2

Part 2/2

I’m Hywel ApBuckler, the father of Milo Allodius Stewart, born 6th October 2013. This is our tragic story and a recount of events which has made my child’s malicious, child-abusing mother, Deborah Stewart (and her child-molesting father, David Stewart) an authority on “How to KILL a child (and his father), FROM THE INSIDE”

 

  
How to KILL a child (and his father), FROM THE INSIDE.
1. Find a man to use for a money and child. A long standing friend of your brother’s is an ideal victim. Hijack the trust they have built up, pretend as if you love him and want a life and family with him. If he tries dumping you a few times because he learns you’re a daughter of a child molester and a reckless psychopath, just keep chasing him until you get yourself pregnant. 

2. Once he does the honourable thing and supports you, builds a home and stands by your side (from the time the child’s conceive, to the time you decide to abduct the child and steel the fathers money) attempt to manufacture disputes, Insulting and demeaning the child’s father for hours on end and bate him to react. e.g. threaten to abort the unborn child, commit suicide to kill the unborn child, threaten to not let the father be present at the birth etc

3. Change all of your passwords for all of your online accounts  in the day’s leading up to the beginning of your malicious campaign to make your child fatherless. Even while your living as a family in your family home. (In good faith the child’s oblivious father will actually help you reconfigure your passwords)

4. Get all of households cash into your bank account. Get as much as you can in there.  Effectively steel from your own young family, child and household. Steeling all the money actually stops the father paying rent and continuing to provide a home for the child. In which case you will most certainly win full legal custody. 

5. Keep the father off the Birth Certificate. Even while your living as a family in your family home attempt to take your child to the registry office and do this. Act as an informant/agent to the state and be an obedient, co-operative ‘citizen’ above any logical thought process. Do not show allegiance to family, constitution or country, give into fear and intimidation of your dominant father and the state without questioning any directives you or your family do not fully understand.  Amend your child’s name to remove any reminisce of influence on name from his father. 

6. Exit any and all agreements you have with the child’s father. Tenancy, join-letters etc. Even while your living as a family in your family home. Make it seem as if he was a one night stand or something. Not someone who your family has a long standing relationship with, or someone who has stood by your side and supported you since your child was conceived because you had no money/savings, job with maternity leave or house. 

7. Obstruct your child’s father in his day to day activity as much as possible to aggravate and bait him some more. Hide his house and car keys, hide is money, don’t let him use the phone. 

8. When your child’s father brings a friend down to meet your child keep the friend and his child from meeting yours. If you can hide away in the next room. Don’t even say hello. Make the friend and child wait in the cold for an hour beforehand by hiding the car keys and cash from your child’s father. 

9. Swear and shout at your child’s father, cause a scene, upset your child a little if he objects to what your doing. Even when it’s just a calm response like “I don’t consent to my son being registered without me on his birth certificate. Things won’t be good between us if you do this”
10. This response is not ideal but it’s enough to use moving forward. When your child’s father and his friend and child give up trying to meet your child and give up patiently waiting in the room next door for you to come out, they will likely pop out for food. This is your change to take off with your child and all the money. Do not leave a note saying where you’re going, do not notify the father. Just take off into the night. 

11. Since you’ve already hid his house keys, make sure the house is locked. This is a win win situation. If he breaks into the house you can allege he is violent. And if he doesn’t know anyone in your community enough to stay at theirs he will go and stay with his relatives which is also something you can use against him to eject him from your child’s life. 

12. Call everyone and tell them he has made you feel threatened and has abandoned you and your child. Also call all of his friends and family with this false allegation. Do not mention you locked him out of baited and aggravated him in the relentless and childish ways you did.  
13. If he asks for you to admit that in reality he did nothing to cause you or your child any actual harm never admit it. Keep spinning him solicited emails that pretend to want remedy, but in reality, keep him away from his son by refusing to admit in writing ‘he did NOTHING’ to harm you or the child you had together. 

16/11/13

I am not stopping you from returning to see your son. As I recall I asked you to stay and discuss this matter on Friday. I don’t think emails are the best way to resolve this.

BACK IN REALITY: I locked my child’s father out of the house and hid the house key. I didn’t ask him to stay and talk, I physically dried detaining him from going to a meeting, I hid the cash and car keys then waited until her was out and took off with the child and money. I wouldn’t communicate in writing because I never intended to confess anything. I called everyone falsely allege her was the  one being threatening. 

18/11/13

I have been honest about the way you made me feel. I agree that going to talk to someone together is a good idea. Milo and I are due to start swimming classes this week. I’m sure he’d love it if you came too!
Here is a smile from him.

BACK IN REALITY: There’s no honesty. This is the early phased of a pre-planned campaign to eject the child’s father from his life. There is still no written admission that the child’s father DID NOTHING to cause the child or malicious mother any harm. This is all he is asking for in order he be able to return home to his son to live in peace without this deception and malice from his child’s mother

19/11/13

I am still willing to try and sort this out. We both have issues we need to discuss. I don’t want things to get nasty. I also do not want you to be apart from your son. I want to work with you. Milo’s happiness and well being  is everything to me and I put it above my own. Please would you contact me by phone?

BACK IN REALITY: There is no effort to ‘sort this out’ because there is no admission in writing that the child’s father has DONE NOTHING to cause any harm. The goal of the malicious mother is to deceive, the emails are solicited, likely by her accomplice (her father). Who is also aiming to deceive, hijack the relationship and forge an exposed boy whom he can molest. Milo’s happiness and well being is not everything, this pre-planned campaign to have a fatherless child is more important to the malicious mother and grandfather. 
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It is eye-opening reading how you perceive events and how you describe your behaviour. I am trying to work out whether you actually believe your words to be true? It is a good idea for us to discuss them with someone soon for Milo’s sake. The health visitor is here tomorrow. It is your choice whether you return before then. Running away is not helping the problem.

BACK IN REALITY: This is said to deceive. There is still no admission that the father has caused no harm so that he is able to return and live in peace without such corruption existing in their household. 
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What is it that I say that you believe to be untrue? Please speak to me by phone. I love you and want to sort this out.

BACK IN REALITY: This is not said with any honestly. The child’s mother does not love the child’s father. Her and her own father are maliciously attempting to deceive and forge a situation where the father is ejected from the child’s life. There is still no written admission that the father has caused no harm to his child or his child’s malicious mother
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I never have made any allegations against you. I have just stated how I felt.

BACK IN REALITY: This is a solicited email. It’s not from the heart. Many calls had been made alleging that the child’s father is being threatening. What’s more audacious is the fact the child’s malicious mother has been a greater risk to the child abruptly abducting him from his home and father, upsetting the child with her erratic episodes. The truth is she was concerned about losing her child because she realised how much of a danger she could be to him with her uncontrollable behaviour. She anticipated that the father might be the first to keep her from the child because of this so acted first to discredit the father and obtain custody of the child by way of abduction and deception. 


It is a shame you feel you can’t be here with me and Milo. It’s an amazing frosty and sunny morning and we’ve just been for a lovely walk. It would have been really nice to have you here with us. If I said I felt threatened at that time would that help matters? I do not wish to bring your name into disrepute and I do wish you’d return or at least speak to me to help resolve this situation. We both really miss you and could do with your support. As you requested I have spoken to my friends and family and they all agree that the best thing to do is sit down and talk about this. Love debs x

BACK IN REALITY: The father was desperate to return home to his child and home. Appealing every day for the malicious mother to confess that he has caused no harm. The goal is to bring the child’s father’s name into disrepute and the campaign to do this hadn’t even properly begun at this point. These solicited emails are the ground work for the forward thought of deceiving the police and courts at a later date. 

10/12/13

Cheers for cash

BACK IN REALITY: The father continues to act in good faith, communicating and supporting his misguided mother and child, despite his child’s mother steeling all his money and keeping him from his child and home with false allegations and continued refusal to admit in writing that the child’s father has caused no harm to his child or her. 



12/12/13

Hywel I’ve got Milo to sleep and have tried calling you several times as arranged, but it keeps going to answer phone. Are you able to speak now?

BACK IN REALITY: There wasn’t even a missed call from the child’s malicious mother and a call was made after this email. The goal of this email was to portray that I am being obstructive with communications. Further deception and malice. 

12/12/2013 15:35:44 – Call Recording (Deborah and Hywel – Silent pauses removed)

12/12/2013 17:36:24 – Call Recording (Deborah and Hywel)

13/12/13

Hywel,

Feeding time. When you gave me that money, I did pay 2 months rent with it. You knew I had not paid January as I told you. I also paid off a great deal of outstanding bills, charges and council tax. I was reluctant to pay any more rent, as you keep telling me I am so shit with cash flow. It is a good job I did, because I have needed it to live off. 

BACK IN REALITY: That money was not given to the child’s malicious mother. Another solicited email attempting to deceive. It was household funds kept in the child’s malicious mother‘s account at her request. There was also no ‘great deal of outstanding bills, charges and council tax’. It was agreed that the child’s malicious mother would pay rent up until January 2014 with some of the funds. There was no need to ‘live off’ the money. Especially if ‘living off’ means secretly arranging a new home for the abducted child, alienating the father with false allegations and continued refusal to admit that the child’s father caused no harm as was being portrayed with the succession of false allegations. What this child’s malicious mother is saying in writing is to deceive, at this moment in time she has already arranged a new house, she has registered the child’s birth without the father on the birth certificate, medicated him without both parents consent and planned her next course of action to eject the child’s father from his son’s life. 

Do not suggest that I have been dishonest with my dad about anything,because I have not. I will discuss this with you tomorrow.

BACK IN REALITY: The child malicious mother had mislead her father to believe she had paid all rent as agreed. Another small example of how she misleads her father and everyone else was on Boxing day when she alleged to her father she had called taxi’s and they were all busy, so he would have to come and pick her up. This was not the case. Another example of how disturbingly comfortable this child’s mother is with lying and misleading others. 

Debs

21/12/13

Hywel,

I will go to the ends of the earth and beyond with a man that loves me and my son, and shows me that he does – it is my dream! Love is not about words, it is all about actions. Your actions are: you abandoned me and our son 5 weeks ago; refused to speak to me until a week ago and now have refused again; sent me numerous unprovoked nasty and ridiculous emails; changed your mind about what you want and contradicted yourself continuously. All of which I have tolerated in the hope that, through discussion, we could get back to where we were, but enough is enough! Looking after Milo is a full time job, one which I thoroughly enjoy, but it is hard work. You have shown us no support over the last 5 weeks and have made things more difficult by being so nasty. That is not love! Of course my dad and Jez are not Milo’s father, they are not trying to be. My family love Milo and are here helping me. The only involvement the state has had, is in checking Milo’s health and development. I would appreciate any financial support obviously, as I gave up my job and life in the Caribbean to come back and be a family with you, and am unable to work until Milo is older. The last money you gave me was about 3000 I don’t know when. I have about 500 left but 350 of that will come out for my final mortgage payment and other bills will come out soon. Milo really needs a cot as his head is nearly touching the top of his Moses basket. I will try to cancel the laundry cottage contract and other bills on Monday. Pete is buying a house for me and Milo to live in, so the rent will be very low. I will be going to stay with him and Tia for Christmas, then back up here for the Stewart massive family bash! Please do not send me any more nasty emails as they do hurt me and don’t get us anywhere. I am aware now that you have a low opinion of me, you do not need to tell me any more. I have done nothing wrong and do not deserve nastiness. Things will be a lot easier for both of us if we can remain civil! I wish you well with everything you do. I’m sure that your business will be a massive success.

Debs


BACK IN REALITY: This girl would go to the end’s of the county to keep a child form his father  and home Christmas Day. She would not go to the end of the country to let that child meet his family or see his father or talk with her child’s father to resolve any differences they had. This email is a further effort to deceive. This accusation that the child’s father has abandoned his son is untrue. He has been locked out of his home, he is simple unable to return to his home and child because he is being wrongfully accused of being a threat, he has been left off his son’s birth certificate and his son has been abducted and re housed as part of a malicious and pre-meditated campaign to make this child fatherless. There was no refusal to communicate, the only insistence was to communicate in writing and have some written admission that the allegations were unfounded and untrue. This child’s malicious mother has received funds into the ten’s of thousands, to say she has only received 3,000 is a lie. Her mortgage is of no relation or concern to her new young family and child, this is a matter with her ex partner and the house has tenants who pay the mortgage. 

‘I have not done anything wrong and don’t deserve nastiness’?  hmmmmm

– Abducted and re-housed a defenceless child
– Alienate the father with false allegations and complete refusal to admit any truth’s in writing
– Send solicited deceiving emails to ensure this pre-calculated crime goes unpunished
– Why is there a plan in place to keep the child and his father (and his father’ family) apart at Christmas ?
– “I wish you well in everything you do”. It seems after she has alienated the father from their child, abducted and re-housed the child at an unknown location and stolen all their money she is thanking the father for his services and dismissing him. THE SICK SICK girl. 

30/12/13

Hywel,

I feel increasingly frightened and threatened by your irrational behaviour. It is this reason I will not go to Wales to talk. Please stop communicating with me by email as this method is not getting us anywhere. If you wish to talk to me, we can arrange for a time to speak by phone.

Debs

BACK IN REALITY: “Frightened” and “threatened”. The next phase of the plan comes to light. The goal is to now begin using defence as offence. The goal is now to justify why you have a fatherless father. Ignoring the fact the father is being alienated by way of false allegations, he has been kept from being on his son’s birth record, his child has been abducted and unnecessarily re-housed. His father has been obstructed from continue to provide a home for his son, he is being discredited, he is being vilified and now the attempt to criminalise him begins.  

1/1/14

Happy New Year Hywel, I hope we can speak soon.

BACK IN REALITY: Despite abducting the child, steeling funds, alienating the father and keeping the child and father apart over Christmas, there is still an effort to deceive, by sending disingenuous solicited emails portraying the malicious mother to be reasonable and amicable. In reality she has been misguided, malicious, deceiving, untruthful, non-cooperative and is acting in her self-interest not that of the child’s AND HIS RIGHT TO A FATHER, PEACE AND FREEDOM. 

3/1/14

Do you still want to meet up to talk and see your son?

BACK IN REALITY: After the father ignored all of the malicious mother‘s (and child molesting grandfather‘s) efforts, to eject the father from her child’s life he made a brave attempt to see his son at Christmas.

He was kept from seeing him again (by way of his malicious mother driving him to the other end of the country in lethal weather conditions, actually placing the child in serious danger to fulfil her malicious campaign). 

The mother then met the father without bringing the child. Instead her father hid outside, secretly recording his reaction while she attempting to further bait and aggravate the father. To falsify evidence to support their false allegations. 

This email is not see attempt to make sure the father and son remain in each other’s lives. After all the obstruction and malicious efforts to eject him from his son’s life, this question is to determine if he has given up yet. Or will they have to escalate their efforts to eject him from his child’s life.

SICK SICK PEOPLE! 

5/1/14

Any financial support is appreciated! Money to replace my possessions that you destroyed would also be helpful.
Stockeld have someone interested in renting Laundry Cottage. If you would agree to come off the contract early, then we would not have to pay rent for March, April and May. Why are you refusing to do this? Are you still organising someone to come and sort out all the damage/mess you made at Laundry Cottage like you said? If so, when are they due to be round? Have you stopped speaking to me by phone again?

BACK IN REALITY: None of the malicious mother’possession’s were damaged. The effort to eject the father from his son’s life has escalated. His malicious mother and child molesting grandfather have at this point mislead the police and landlord to illegally evict the father from his home and attempt to criminalise him. They have also began harassing the father into vacating his home so that the abduction and rehousing of his child can be justified. “Have you stopped speaking to me by phone again?” This is clearly another deceiving solicited email. There has never been a breakdown in communication, other than from the child’s malicious mother

“Why are you refusing to do this?” e.g vacate the home you provide for your son and yourself now that we have abducted your child, alienated you as the father and had your locks changed on your home while you were out?

6/1/14

I have explained to you several times why I am not going to Wales and why I am not going to live at Laundry Cottage again.

BACK IN REALITY: You have said in a solicited deceiving email once. But there is still no valid reason for keeping this defenceless child from his father and father’s side of the family. 

6/1/14

As I have said since you left, I think that the best way forward is for us to talk on the phone or arrange to meet up to talk. As you have continuously said you are done with Yorkshire, please come off the Laundry Cottage contract early so that they can re-let it.

BACK IN REALITY: Another attempt to get the father from his home, to get him to cease providing a home for his son so that his abduction and rehousing elsewhere can be justified.  

15/1/14

Ok I will speak to my solicitor.

BACK IN REALITY: This is a response to concerned raised by the father about his rights being violated. The appeal to his malicious mother was for agreement to agree to appoint a private representative to protect the child and mediate between us. There was no agreement, there was no response to this. The father is still concerned about his child’s rights being violated without any representation which keeps both his parents in his life. 

22/1/14

Hywel,

Milo is very well. He recovered from his cold very quickly. He has started grabbing at things and he now chatters away continuously. I have never stopped you or your family from seeing Milo. I have always spoken to you when you wanted. I have always been truthful with you. I don’t respond to most of your hurtful emails because I simply don’t know how to. They are threatening, abusive and out of touch with reality. It would take me days to go through everything you’ve accused me of. All I have done since you abandoned us, is love and care for Milo under difficult circumstances. I have always had, and always will have, his best interests at heart. It has been your choice to: leave; stay away; send continuous nasty emails; refuse to speak to me on the phone; destroy my possessions; not come back to see your son. I am not trying to hurt you, this is not how I wanted things to be at all, but I am very worried about many of the things you have been writing.

BACK IN REALITY: The threats and abuse has come from the malicious mother and his ill motivated, child-molesting grandfather. Where as the father has only sent words on email, the malicious mother has abducted and unnecessarily re-housed the child, caused an illegal eviction, registered the child’s birth without the father, stolen funds, alienated the father with false allegations. This is another solicited email and desperate attempt justify the complete lack of communication from the  malicious mother who has de-raised her son’s (and his fathers) life of peace in their home, and unlawfully forged a fatherless life for her abducted, captive, abused, enslaved child.  

4/2/14

Milo is an exclusively breastfed baby. He has formed a good, strong attachment to me. It would be very damaging to Milo to remove him from his mummy.

BACK IN REALITY: This was a 5th attempt from the father to see his child and take his child to meet his family who he has been kept form by his malicious mother since his abduction. This was also another excuse from the mother and a condensing email intending to aggregative. He has been maliciously and systematically been kept form his father for months, to say that taking him from his mother for a day would be ‘damaging’ is another insult designed to to aggregative

The father received professional advise from a specialist who dealt with malicious mothers and parental alienation for 16+ years. He responded with this advice which was to have the malicious mother put the milk in a bottle. 

This was a valid reason to let the child see his alienated father and go with him to meet his father’s side of the family. There was clearly no more excuses in this malicious mother to keep her child from his father. Abducting the child from his home and father, leaving the father off the birth certificate, locking the father from his home and having the locks changed, attempting to frame and criminalise the father, ignoring the father for weeks and keeping him from his son and him apart for months DID NOT stop the father continuing to want to be in his child’s life and continue to provide him his love, care and a home. 

14. So you’re now living on stolen money, you have abducted your child and de-railed his life AND you are not in any position to offer your child a better quality of life than the father has. So begin making arrangements for a new house, (get your family to buy one out of pity for the lies you’ve told them about your child’s father). If you have a father that molested you as a child, who still wishes to dominate you and help make your child fatherless and exposed so that he can molester it. Then re-engage in your incestuous relations with him. This way you can raise your child with him and spend all his pension money. And get him to babysit and sexually molest the child while you go out drinking and taking drugs.  

15. Do not communicate with the child’s father. Send one or two solicited emails and then cut communications. Hopefully he will eventually just go away and you will have a fatherless child as planned and his child-molesting grandfather will help so that he has an exposed child to molest. As he did with his other grandchild. 

16. your child’s father might ask you to meet and speak. Away from the influence of people who are assisting you with your campaign to make your child fatherless. Don’t go and meet him or take your son to see him. He may try to convince you that your child needs his father. He may try to convince you that he would like equal parenting terms. He may ruin yours and others plans to forge a fatherless child. He may just want to see his son at Christmas or his family to meet his son. Don’t do anything he asks, it will ruin your scheme to eject your child’s father from his life.  

17. Bait and aggravate him some more. Try saying he should go and live somewhere else. Get your father to send condescending emails. Try coming off the tenancy agreement and say his child is now living elsewhere.  Ignore him and only send cold, solicited emails. Don’t let him see his son on even a skype call. 
18. Your child’s father might ignore the fact you’re telling everyone he’s a threat, ignore the fact you won’t communicate with him, ignore the fact you won’t meet with him to speak, ignore the fact you’re alienating him, ignore the fact you’ve abducted his son and stolen his money, ignore the fact your scheme to eject him from his son’s life. 

He might only retaliate with words on email and that’s all you should focus on. Things you can use against him to keep him from his son. Ignore the fact he appeals to you to let him and his family see his son, or that he intends to return home, despite you not withdrawing your false allegations so that he can be with his son at Christmas as a matter of principle. And talk to you in good faith. He may continue sending you money, he may continue to find a way to pay rent and bills and provide a home without the money you stole. He may continue to offer his son his love and care despite weeks of being alienated from him with false allegations and alienation. he may not give up and walk away despite all of the efforts to eject him from his abducted son’s life. 

19. When the father returns home Christmas (despite your false allegation he is a threat that needs to keep away, despite you not speaking to him, letting him see his son on skype, despite you refusing to go to him to talk and let his family meet his son) you must DRIVE TO THE OTHER END OF THE COUNTRY (in lethal weather, risking your own abducted, alienated child’s safety), to further spite and aggravate the father by keeping them apart on Christmas Day. This behaviour is also consistent with the false allegation that you are fearful of him and that he is a threat. Base yourself on a secure army camp on Christmas Day as the pinnacle way of ensuring they are kept apart and emotionally tormenting, torturing and scaring the father and child beyond words. Don’t worry about principles, morals, child welfare, child’s rights. Just keep listening to the ill advice and your own evil motive to eject your child’s father from his life. 

Do not even provide the father with the key’s to the house. Make him try getting a copy from the landlord during the Christmas holidays. Or try getting him to smash his way in again so that you can portray him to be violent. 

20. Agree to see him briefly Boxing Day. But not at his families so they can meet his son. Instead return home Boxing Day without your child in order to further aggravate him, Don’t even tell him where his son is being held. Try aggravating and baiting him some more. Tell him he’s dumped, tell him you have re-housed your child and don’t tell him where, telling him you are planning to take all the furniture AND tell him he should consider himself lucky you are even speaking with him and that he won’t find anyone better than you. Tell him you intend to continue using the house to entertain and facilitate your friends staying over and spending more time with your child. Tell him you are to busy over Christmas and New Years for him to see his son. Surely this and everything that you’ve done will get him to react. 
21. Have your father hide outside and secretly record the father’s reaction. He will most certainly explode by now and give you the ammunition you need to make your child fatherless. With this false evidence to support your false allegations he’ll most certainly be unable to ever see his child again. If he responds by saying “I’m only here to listen and try to understand you” then you have not failed. You can continue to keep him from his son until he does react. 

22. He might patiently wait at home alone for many more days over Christmas. Don’t return with your child. This will surely hurt and aggravate him enough to do something that you can use against him. 

At this point he makes this call.

 


23. Your child’s father may try to gain probable cause to support his reasonable suspicions that you are maliciously attempting to eject him from his son’s life. He knows he is well within his right to do what he wants with his own property in his own own. But you can try to use this act of vandalism to your advantage anyway. 

When you return to your home and see this mess, use this opportunity to mislead the landlord into believing he’d damaged and abandoned the property, also call the police and be melodramatic and misleading as possible This will cause an illegal eviction which obstructs him from continuing to be able to provide a home for his child or live near your child. Calling the police might also get him a criminal record which will get him ejected from your child’s life. You are giving him the reasonable suspicion he was expecting from doing this, but do it anyway. Authorities always side with the mothers.  Get your  father to send an email prematurely celebrating the fact he think’s you have both successfully forged a criminal record onto the child’s father in order to keep him from  his child, indefinitely. 
24. The child’s father may continue to pay rent (and advances it to restore good faith with the landlord) and continue to offer to love and care for his son and provide a home, and continue to offer to replace the furniture on condition he and his family get to see his son. But ignore this. Continue to operate in bad faith. HARASS HIM by email into vacating his home, your father and landord will join you in making him feel unwelcome in his son’s life and his own home. Tell him he is being a nuisance and ruining your plans by not vacating his home. 
25. Continue to resist going to him to talk, taking your child to see his father or meet his fathers’ side of the family.
26. Obstruct him from coming to you to see your child, make excuses after excuse. Stop communicating with him all together. Don’t even tell him about his son’s welfare, location etc. Continue to aggravate and attack him. 

27. Cease communicating with the child’s father all together after sending him the necessary solicited emails to eject him from his son’s life and a few lame, condescending excuses why he can’t see his son. 

28. Complain to the police he is harassing you with his emails asking to see his son. Don’t even tell him he is being a nuisance. You have aggravated and tortured and tormented  him enough and prolonged it enough to gain enough material for the police to attempt to have him criminalised again. 

29. The police might not be able to charge him like you intend but they will give you a panic alarm to help you portray that he is a threat and they will support you with court proceedings to have an anti-molestation/ restraining order set against the father. This way he can be locked up for asking to see his son again or attempting to see his son where he is being held captive. 

The truth – Witness Statement no.1
On 4 Mar 2014, at 20:35, Jim Rushton <rush2513@hotmail.com> wrote:

The following is to the best of my knowledge a true recollection of the events that happened on 15th Nov 2013.
I have known Sion Buckler for over 10 years now since first meeting during training in the Army.  As well as our business contact we are friends and were both excited to become first time fathers around the same date.  My daughter Lyla was born 22nd August 2013 shortly before Sion’s son Milo.  Due to this we had arranged a get together and catch up with our new babies for the 15th November at Sion’s home in Wetherby.  I proceeded to travel down from my home in Wallsend.  Around 20 miles short of Wetherby I had a text from Sion to change the plans a little and I should meet him in Wetherby town centre in the car park by the river.  So I proceeded there and Sion told me he would meet me there soon.  I had to wait for over an hour which was unlike Sion.  I didn’t think much of it and eventually he arrived, we had a little chat and I followed him back to his cottage.  Upon arriving Sion invited me in, offered me a cup of tea and we had a little catch up.  I was beginning to wonder where his partner Debbie and their child was as it was expected I’d be meeting them and them meeting my daughter.  I think I asked where they were and Sion told me Debbie was in bed and wasn’t getting up.  I didn’t think too much of it at the time and thought she must be tired, maybe she’s been up all night or perhaps she had a bit of post natal depression.  Me, Sion and my daughter then went into Harrogate for something to eat as Sion had to visit the bank.  We had our meal and a good catch up and I agreed to drop Sion back at his place before travelling back north and home.

I am shocked and appalled by what has happened since that day.  To my knowledge Sion is a gentle man always so enthusiastic about his work, this enthusiasm only matched in his expectation of what fatherhood would bring.  He has so far been robbed of that privilege undeservedly and with malice.  Repeat attacks on his character wholly unjustified.  I hope this statement goes someway to restoring my friends image and helps in his fight to see his son.

Please find my contact details below, it is best to contact me on my mobile as I’m often working away from home

Jim A Rushton
Telecommunications Installer and Commissioner

30. You must then mislead the court by saying on your application that the child is resident at his place of captivity not his father’s home where he has been abducted from, that his father is a threat without having done anything to warrant this claim. You must leave out the fact that you have a tenancy and rent arrangement in place on a home you continue to share etc. Mention the panic alarm, express a wish for the child’s father to not see the application so that he is unable to prepare or attend the hearing to provide a defence, knowing full well he is being illegally obstructed from accessing his home and mail. 

31. The father may move to a different country to help make it clear to his child’s malicious mother, the police and courts that he does not wish to contract with anyone (especially and including the police who attempted to kidnap him to force him to contract) or the courts and the child’s malicious mother who falsified evidence (altering the name/title he operates under) in order to unlawfully contract with him. He might not want conflict. He may just want to be back in his country, back in his home, back with his his son, being left alone to live a life of self-reliance and peace. As did he and his son until his child was abducted and subjected to forced fatherlessness. 

Despite this you should continue to have your father aggravate and bait the child’s father so to ensure the judge on the unnecessary ‘anti-molestation order’ is further mislead with falsified evidence and grants the unlawfully requested order, (instead of serving actual justice in our British courts, for an alienated powerless father and defenceless ABDUCTED CHILD in the process of being ABUSED by his malicious mother and child molesting grand father. The deceiving, child-molesting grandfather may even use an anonymous profile to further obstruct the course of justice. 



BEFORE A 32ND ATTEMPT IS MADE TO MALICIOUSLY MAKE THE CHILD FATHERLESS, THE MISGUIDED MOTHER CAN EITHER: 

a) i) Communicate with the father of your child. Let him know his child is still alive and his child’s health status. Let him see and speak to his child on a skype call and make arrangement to return his child to him and their home.  

ii) Stop escalating the campaign to make your own child fatherless. Show some remorse to your defenceless child and his powerless father. Drop misleading the courts, police and financial regulators to unlawfully criminalise, intimidate and harass your child’s father for continuing to want to see and father his child and expose you for your crimes against him and his son. Apologise to the authorities and landlord for being such a malicious menace and misleading them so that your child’s father is able to be in the same country as his son, and home, without the state assisting you in your campaign to make your own child father.

iii) Be honest with yourself and your family. Your child’s father has done nothing to cause you and your child together, any harm. Admit this in writing. Admit to the child’s concerned father that your struggling to be a parent, your feeble and easily misguided. Whatever the case, rescind all false allegations, falsified court applications, falsified complaints to the police etc.

iv) Return your son to his father and home. Allow your child’s father to take his own son to meet his family, who’ve been patiently waiting since December 2013 to meet their newest family member.


v) Return the child’s birth certificate and break the unlawful contract made between the abducted child and the state. Re-instate the real name of the child, mutually decided by both his parents. Ask for the conditional letter of acceptance to be properly responded to by the state, in order that the procedure be fully understood and decided by both parents WITHOUT ABDUCTING THE CHILD AND ALIENATING THE PARENT WHO RAISES THE QUERY.   
vi) Co-parent your child with your child’s father and share the responsibility of the young life you’ve both brought into this world. Make proper arrangements, consult each other and gain proper consent and practise equal parenting for your child’s future, his benefit and his welfare. 


vii) Manage the advice, influence, demands and support of others so that YOUR OWN young families life (and child’s future) is not infiltrated, torn-apart, de-railed and hijacked by ill motivated outside parties with self-interests THAT DO NOT FACTOR IN IF YOUR CHILD HAS A FATHER (IN ACCORDANCE WITH HIS MOST BASIC HUMAN RIGHT) OR INFORM THE CHILD’S FATHER ABOUT HIS ABDUCTED CHILD’S LOCATION OR STATE OF HEALTH.  OR EVEN IF HE IS STILL ALIVE. 

OR

b) Proceed onwards to a 32nd relentless attempt to maliciously and abusively force fatherlessness onto your defenceless child,  and alienate the father, putting yet another obstacle in between your child and his father (in addition to distance, time, courts, police, councils, family, friends, false allegation and false behaviour!) …further adding more humiliating points to this very evident campaign to continue practising a form of child abuse called ‘parental alienation’ (and forging unlawful criminal charges onto the child’s emotionally tortured and tormented, innocent, loving and caring father, in an attempt to keep them apart indefinitely. 

YOU’VE CHOSEN TO PROCEED TO A 32ND ATTEMPT: DEBORAH STEWART AND HER ACCOMPLICES HAVE NOW MADE A 32ND ATTEMPT TO MAKE MY CHILD FATHERLESS. THESE CHILD ABUSING CRIMINALS ARE RELENTLESS! 

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DEAR QUEEN, DEFENDER OF THE FAITH

ALIENATED FATHERS NEED OUR FAITH DEFENDING: http://change.org/en-GB/petitions/elizabeth-ii-help-my-child
REMIND ME AGAIN WHAT I FOUGHT FOR?  A CONSTITUTION, WHERE? 
HYWEL APBUCKLER

WILLING, LOVING AND CARING FATHER
(AND PROTECTOR) OF MILO ALLODIUS STEWART

“Lbenslanger schicksalsschatz” (lifelong treasure of destiny) is not something that develops over time. It’s something that happens instantaneously. It courses through you like the water in a river after a storm. Filling you but emptying you all at once. You feel it throughout your body. In your hands, in your heart, in your stomach, in your skin. 

126th day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius

I’m Hywel ApBuckler, the father of Milo Allodius Stewart, born 6th October 2013. This is our tragic story and recount of events which has made my child’s mother, Deborah Stewart (and her father David Stewart) the pioneers of a guide I’m calling “How to KILL your own child (and his father), FROM THE INSIDE”

 

  

126th day of being an alienated father – Part 1

126th day of being an alienated father – Part 2

How to KILL your own child (and his father), FROM THE INSIDE

1. Find a man to use for a money and child. A long standing friend of your brother’s is an ideal victim. Hijack the trust they have built up, pretend as if you love him and want a life and family with him. If he tries dumping you a few times because he learns you are a reckless, psychopath just keep chasing him until you get pregnant. 

2. Attempt to manufacture disputes, sometimes insulting and demeaning the child’s father for hours on end and bating him to react. e.g. threatening to abort the unborn child, commit suicide to kill the unborn child, threaten to not let the father be present at the birth.  

3. Change all of your passwords for all of your online accounts  in the day’s leading up to the beginning of your malicious campaign to make your child fatherless. Even while your living as a family in your family home. (In good faith the child’s father will actually help you do this)

4. Get all of households cash into your bank account. Get as much as you can in there.  Effectively steel from your own young family, child and household. Steeling all the money actually stops the father paying rent and continuing to provide a home for the child. In which case you will most certainly will full legal custody. 

5. Keep the father off the Birth Certificate. Even while your living as a family in your family home attempt to take your child to the registry office and do this. Act as an informant/agent to the state and be an obedient, co-operative ‘citizen’ above any logical thought process. Do not show allegiance to family, constitution or country, give into fear and intimidation of your dominant father and the state without questioning any directives you or your family do not fully understand.  Amend your child’s name to remove any reminisce of influence on name from his father. 

6. Exit any and all agreements you have with the child’s father. Tenancy, join-letters etc. Even while your living as a family in your family home. Make it seem as if he was a one night stand or something. Not someone who your family has a long standing relationship with, or someone who has stood by your side and supported you since your child was conceived because you had no money/savings, job with maternity leave or house. 

7. Obstruct your child’s father in his day to day activity as much as possible to aggravate and bait him some more. Hide his house and car keys, hide is money, don’t let him use the phone. 

8. When your child’s father brings a friend down to meet your child keep the friend and his child from meeting yours. If you can hide away in the next room. Don’t even say hello. Make the friend and child wait in the cold for an hour beforehand by hiding the car keys and cash from your child’s father. 

9. Swear and shout at your child’s father, cause a scene, upset your child a little if he objects to what your doing. Even when it’s just a calm response like “I don’t consent to my son being registered without me on his birth certificate. Things won’t be good between us if you do this”

10. This response is not ideal but it’s enough to use moving forward. When your child’s father and his friend and child give up trying to meet your child and give up patiently waiting in the room next door for you to come out, they will likely pop out for food. This is your change to take off with your child and all the money. Do not leave a note saying where you’re going, do not notify the father. Just take off into the night. 

11. Since you’ve already hid his house keys, make sure the house is locked. This is a win win situation. If he breaks into the house you can allege he is violent. And if he doesn’t know anyone in your community enough to stay at theirs he will go and stay with his relatives which is also something you can use against him to eject him from your child’s life. 

12. Call everyone and tell them he has made you feel threatened and has abandoned you and your child. Also call all of his friends and family with this false allegation. Do not mention you locked him out of baited and aggravated him in the relentless and childish ways you did.  

13. If he asks for you to admit that in reality he did nothing to cause you or your child any actual harm don’t. Don’t even communication with him in writing. 

14. You are living on stolen money, you have abducted your child and de-railed his life, you are not in a position to offer your child a better quality of life than the father has for you and your son. So begin making arrangements for a new house, get your family to buy one out of pity for the lies you’ve told them about your child’s father. If you have a father that molested you as a child still wishes to dominate you and help make your child fatherless and exposed so that he can molester it. Then re-engage in your incestuous relations with him. This way you can raise your child with him and spend all his pension money. And get him to babysit while you go out drinking and taking drugs and find another man’s life to ruin.  

15. Do not communicate with the child’s father. Send one or two solicited emails and then cut communications. Hopefully he will eventually just go away and you will have a fatherless child as planned and his grandfather will help so that he has an exposed child to molest. As he did with his other grandchild. 

16. your child’s father might ask you to meet and speak. Away from the influence of people who are assisting you with your campaign to make your child fatherless. Don’t go and meet him or take your son to see him. He may try to convince you that your child needs his father. He may try to convince you that he would like equal parenting terms. He may ruin yours and others plans to forge a fatherless child. He may just want to see his son at Christmas or his family to meet his son. Don’t do anything he asks, it will ruin your scheme to eject your child’s father from his life.  

17. Bait and aggravate him some more. Try saying he should go and live somewhere else. Get your father to send condescending emails. Try coming off the tenancy agreement and say his child is now living elsewhere.  Ignore him and only send cold, solicited emails. Don’t let him see his son on even a skype call. 

18. Your child’s father might ignore the fact you’re telling everyone he’s a threat, ignore the fact you won’t communicate with him, ignore the fact you won’t meet with him to speak, ignore the fact you’re alienating him, ignore the fact you’ve abducted his son and stolen his money, ignore the fact your scheme to eject him from his son’s life. 

He might only retaliate with words on email and that’s all you should focus on. Things you can use against him to keep him from his son. Ignore the fact he appeals to you to let him and his family see his son, or that he intends to return home, despite you not withdrawing your false allegations so that he can be with his son at Christmas as a matter of principle. And talk to you in good faith. He may continue sending you money, he may continue to find a way to pay rent and bills and provide a home without the money you stole. He may continue to offer his son his love and care despite weeks of being alienated from him with false allegations and alienation. he may not give up and walk away despite all of the efforts to eject him from his abducted son’s life. 

19. When the father returns home Christmas (despite your false allegation he is a threat that needs to keep away, despite you not speaking to him, letting him see his son on skype, despite you refusing to go to him to talk and let his family meet his son) you must DRIVE TO THE OTHER END OF THE COUNTRY (in lethal weather, risking your own abducted, alienated child’s safety), to further spite and aggravate the father by keeping them apart on Christmas Day. This behaviour is also consistent with the false allegation that you are fearful of him and that he is a threat. Base yourself on a secure army camp on Christmas Day as the pinnacle way of ensuring they are kept apart and emotionally tormenting, torturing and scaring the father and child beyond words. Don’t worry about principles, morals, child welfare, child’s rights. Just keep listening to the ill advice and your own evil motive to eject your child’s father from his life. 

Do not even provide the father with the key’s to the house. Make him try getting a copy from the landlord during the Christmas holidays. Or try getting him to smash his way in again so that you can portray him to be violent. 

20. Agree to see him briefly Boxing Day. But not at his families so they can meet his son. Instead return home Boxing Day without your child in order to further aggravate him, Don’t even tell him where his son is being held. Try aggravating and baiting him some more. Tell him he’s dumped, tell him you have re-housed your child and don’t tell him where, telling him you are planning to take all the furniture AND tell him he should consider himself lucky you are even speaking with him and that he won’t find anyone better than you. Tell him you intend to continue using the house to entertain and facilitate your friends staying over and spending more time with your child. Tell him you are to busy over Christmas and New Years for him to see his son. Surely this and everything that you’ve done will get him to react. 

21. Have your father hide outside and secretly record the father’s reaction. He will most certainly explode by now and give you the ammunition you need to make your child fatherless. With this false evidence to support your false allegations he’ll most certainly be unable to ever see his child again. If he responds by saying “I’m only here to listen and try to understand you” then you have not failed. You can continue to keep him from his son until he does react. 

22. He might patiently wait at home alone for many more days over Christmas. Don’t return with your child. This will surely hurt and aggravate him enough to do something that you can use against him. 

At this point he makes this call.


23. Your child’s father may try to gain probable cause to support his reasonable suspicions that you are maliciously attempting to eject him from his son’s life. He knows he is well within his right to do what he wants with his own property in his own own. But you can try to use this act of vandalism to your advantage anyway. 

When you return to your home and see this mess, use this opportunity to mislead the landlord into believing he’d damaged and abandoned the property, also call the police and be melodramatic and misleading as possible This will cause an illegal eviction which obstructs him from continuing to be able to provide a home for his child or live near your child. Calling the police might also get him a criminal record which will get him ejected from your child’s life. You are giving him the reasonable suspicion he was expecting from doing this, but do it anyway. Authorities always side with the mothers.  Get your  father to send an email celebrating the fact he has given them everything they need to criminalise him and keep him from his son, indefinitely. 

24. The child’s father may continue to pay rent (and advances it to restore good faith with the landlord) and continue to offer to love and care for his son and provide a home, and continue to offer to replace the furniture on condition he and his family get to see his son. But ignore this. Continue to operate in bad faith. HARASS HIM by email into vacating his home, your father and landord will join you in making him feel unwelcome in his son’s life and his own home. Tell him he is being a nuisance and ruining your plans by not vacating his home. 

25. Continue to resist going to him to talk, taking your child to see his father or meet his fathers’ side of the family.

26. Obstruct him from coming to you to see your child, make excuses after excuse. Stop communicating with him all together. Don’t even tell him about his son’s welfare, location etc. Continue to aggravate and attack him. 

27. Cease communicating. 

28. Complain to the police he is harassing you with his emails asking to see his son. Don’t even tell him he is being a nuisance. You have aggravated and tortured and tormented  him enough and prolonged it enough to gain enough material for the police to attempt to have him criminalised again. 

29. The police might not be able to charge him like you intend but they will give you a panic alarm to help you portray that he is a threat and they will support you with court proceedings to have an anti-molestation/ restraining order set against the father. This way he can be locked up for asking to see his son again or attempting to see his son where he is being held captive. 

30. You must then mislead the court by saying on your application that the child is resident at his place of captivity not his father’s home where he has been abducted from, that his father is a threat without having done anything to warrant this claim. You must leave out the fact that you have a tenancy and rent arrangement in place on a home you continue to share etc. Mention the panic alarm, express a wish for the child’s father to not see the application so that he is unable to prepare or attend the hearing to provide a defence, knowing full well he is being illegally obstructed from accessing his home and mail. 

31. The father may moves to a different country to help make it clear to you, the police and courts and your family that he does not want to engage in legal battles, he does not want to contract with the state, he does not want conflict, he does not want to make you feel threatened. He may do this to show he simply wants to be back in his country, back in his home, back with his his son living in peace. 

Do you 

a) continue in your relentless attempt to make your child fatherless and put obstacles in the way of your child and his father including courts, police, councils, family, friends, false allegation and false behaviour ?

b) 

i) Communicate with the father of your child. Let him know his child is still alive and his child’s health status.
ii) Stop escalating your campaign to make your own child fatherless. Show some remorse to your defenceless child and his powerless father. 
iii) Drop your unnecessary court orders and police complaints and apologise to the authorities for being such a malicious menace so that your child’s father can be in the same country as his son without being intimidated and harassed by the state. Who he despising being involved in his and his sons life. 
iv) Be honest with your landlord so that your child’s father and child can regain access to their home.
v) Be honest with yourself and your family. Your child’s father has done nothing to cause you and your child together, any harm. Admit this in writing, admit your struggling your feeble, you’re misguided. Whatever the case, rescind your false allegations.
vi) Return your son to his father and home. Let your child’s father take his son to meet his family. 
vii) Afterwards proper arrangements, consent and equal parenting should be discussed for your child’s future, his benefit and overall welfare. The peace will be restored for many many people and lives effected by this situation. 

Expect the father to show the same humility, remorse, understanding, empathy. 
HYWEL APBUCKLER
WILLING, LOVING AND CARING FATHER
(AND PROTECTOR) OF MILO ALLODIUS STEWART


“Lbenslanger schicksalsschatz” (lifelong treasure of destiny) is not something that develops over time. It’s something that happens instantaneously. It courses through you like the water in a river after a storm. Filling you but emptying you all at once. You feel it throughout your body. In your hands, in your heart, in your stomach, in your skin. Have you ever felt this way about someone?

123rd day of abduction, abuse and exploitation of my child: Allodius



How long could you keep tearing wings off flies and pulling legs off spiders? Hours, Days, Weeks? In the case of a psychopath mother, Deborah Stewart (of Otley in West Yorkshire) IT’S MONTHS! She has maliciously and systematically, kept her own child away from his father and home, FOR MONTHS …..AND FOR NO GOOD REASON.

I’m Hywel ApBuckler, the father of Milo Allodius Stewart, born 6th October 2013. This is our tragic story and a recount of events which has become a guide book on “How to KILL your own child (and his father), FROM THE INSIDE”

 

  


On the 15th November 2013 Deborah Stewart abducted baby Milo from me, his father and our home in order to raise him with a dominating, controlling man who’s been sexually molesting her since she was a child, HER OWN FATHER. She did this by her own accord because she still has incestuous relations with her father. A SICK SICK FAMILY.

David Stewart was deemed by society to be a RISK TO CHILDREN and ejected from his teaching career for NOT BEING TRUSTED NEAR CHILDREN. A cannabis smoking child molester who I EXPRESSLY DENIED MY CONSENT to being near MY CHILD. Let alone babysit my son while his mentally unwell mother relentlessly alienates me in order to go our drinking and take drugs. 


  

David (Granddad) and Deborah Stewart (Mother), 
7 Newall Mount, Otley, West Yorkshire, LS21 2DY
01943 461971 // dave@singout.me.uk // debjstewart@hotmail.co.uk

WHY ABDUCT AND KEEP OUR DEFENCELESS CHILD FROM HIS OWN POWERLESS FATHER AND THEIR HOME DEBORAH? WHY IGNORE, AGGRAVATE (AND ATTEMPT TO FRAME & CRIMINALISE) ME DEBORAH? Parental alienation is CHILD ABUSE. It’s also day-after-day of emotional torture and torment for me, his father AND MY CHILD. 

Deborah Stewart, you and your family are great pretenders and SOCIAL FRAUDS! YOU ARE NOTHING BUT DRUG USING, CHILD ABDUCTORS AND ABUSERS. You’ve made false allegations, mislead the landlord into performing an illegal eviction (obstructing me from providing a home for my son). Used our child to aggravate me in the most perverse ways e.g. keeping them apart Christmas Day by driving to the other end of the country. And falsify allegations, evidence and police complaints. AN OBVIOUS ATTEMPT TO FORGE AND STEEL FULL CUSTODY OF THE CHILD YOU STOLE.

You have used up all of my patience and understanding with your sick treatment of me and our child. You’ve ABUSED your power as the bearer of my child (whom you’re now using to hurt me in between using him as a pay-cheque and bartering chip). YOU’RE ALSO ABUSING your position of trust as my child’s mother and CO-PARENT, and abusing the authorities (and the tax payers pound).

IN FACT, YOU AND YOUR FATHER ARE SO MALICIOUS, UNMERCIFUL AND ABUSIVE THAT YOU HAVE NEAR ENOUGH WRITTEN THE BOOK ON PARENTAL ALIENATION AND THIS HORRIFIC FORM OF CHILD ABUSE!


1. You purposefully attempted to keep me off our sons birth certificate.

2. Your tantrum of being caught caused made you erratic, eruptive and abrupt which upset our son and instigated a succession of emotional scaring which you’ve continued to subjected him to ever since.

3. You hid our keys and cash to be a menace, obstructive and a nuisance.

4. You kept my friend and his daughter waiting in the cold and kept them from meeting my son by keeping him in the next room.

5. You called the registry office and asked to be disassociated from a letter you consensually signed with me.

6. I returned home to find myself locked out and no notice of where you’d gone with Milo. You’d abruptly taken off with our son and all our money while I was out having dinner.

7. You would not come back to reality about that day, you were carried away with the power and control of your very serious false allegation and twist of my words AND maliciously notifying everyone in my family and community, even as far afield as my ex girlfriend.

8. You refuse to admit (in writing) that I’d done nothing to harm you or Milo.

9. You kept me away from my son and home with this malicious game of yours.

10. You then alleged I’d abandoned you both for not being able to return to you. Which I couldn’t under the circumstances you’d created. Your first evident act of malice!

11. You refused to live elsewhere, you and your melding father insisted I leave.

12. You refused! You said your brother was rehousing Milo and he was having Milo at his Christmas Day day and I wasn’t invited.

13. You actually seemed to want to involve Milo in this matter. Driving in lethal weather, to the other end of the country to keep him from me, and our home.

14. You refused to bring him to my families so that they could meet.

15. You then returned home Boxing Day without our son in order to further aggravate me, also telling me I was dumped, confirming that you’d re-housed our son, saying you were taking our furniture AND, quiet comically, that I should consider myself lucky and that I wouldn’t find anyone better than you. AND that you’d be using our house to entertain and facilitate your friends staying over and spending more time with our son WHEN NEITHER MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY HAVE MET HIM, NOR HAD I SEEN HIM IN WEEKS!

16. I didn’t react. I remained calm in shock. Which was fortunate considering your dad was hiding outside recording my reaction. You sick sick people were attempting to frame me and falsify evidence to support your false allegations that I’m a threat.

17. I patiently waited at home alone for many more days over Christmas. You didn’t return with our son, further hurting and aggravating me.

18. It was clear to me that you were toying with me and my emotions and attempting to systematically gain full legal custody of my abducted, alienated child by systematically criminalise me.

AGAIN, ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH!!!
A way of getting probable cause to support my very reasonable suspicions of you maliciously attempting to criminalise me, to legally steel the child you’d already stolen, was discussed in depth with someone I trust. Seeing as I was well within my right to do what I wanted with my property in my home. WHICH IS NOT A CRIME! I proceeded to vandalise it. Calmly and methodically. Not touching any of yours or our son’s items in the process. Then I left.

19. You must have returned and saw the mess. But instead of contacting me you immediately took the opportunity to mislead the landlord into believing I’d damaged and abandoned the property, you also called and mislead the police. As I suspected you would in your campaign to separate me from my son. You claimed it was your property that was damaged. An illegal eviction was attempted, the locks were changed.
I CAUGHT YOU OUT. AND YOUR MALICIOUS AND CRIMINAL FATHER.

20. You’d obstructed me from continuing to provide a home for our son and made a serious attempt to have me criminalised. Without success.

21. You and your father and landlord then HARASSED ME into vacating my home and existing the tenancy agreement early, despite me wanting to continue providing a home for my child. I even had an email from your father assuming I’d been criminalised and wouldn’t see my son, celebrating a little too early.

I STILL HAVE NO CRIMINAL RECORD OF ANY KIND AND MY SON AND I STILL HAVE OUR HOME TO RETURN TO. 12/03/14 – YET YOU’VE RE-HOUSED HIM AND KEPT US APART SINCE NOV 2013!

RETURN OUR SON TO HIS ALIENATED FATHER AND HOME!

I continued to appeal to you day after day, and still do, for you to return my son to his father and home and stop playing these games which are so evidently a malicious attempt to indefinitely sever me from my child’s life. Despite this….

21. You continue to resist coming to me to talk, bringing my son to me, to meet my family.

22. I made 5 further attempts to see my son and you were obstructive EVERY TIME. excuse after excuse!

23. You and your family continue to aggravate and attack me.

24. You then cease communicating with me from the 6th Feb 2014 for overcoming your lame excuse to not let me collect my son and take him to meet my family.

25. You then spontaneously complain to the police I am harassing you. WITHOUT EVEN TELLING ME I am being a nuisance or that my emails (ASKING YOU TO LET ME SEE MY SON) are unwelcome. 

26. You then instigate court proceedings to have an Anti-molestation order set against me on the 13th March 2014.

I’M SORRY YOU FEEL I AM ANNOYING YOU. BUT YOU’VE ABDUCTED OUR SON AND ARE KEEPING HIM FROM ME AND OUR HOME. YOU ARE AN OBTUSE, MALICIOUS, CALCULATED BULLY AND CHILD ABUSER! YOU AND YOUR SICK FAMILY SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES.

AGAIN, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!

Drop this malicious complaint to the police and this nonsensical court action. Deal directly with me Deborah, you have a lot to answer for. Meet me, let’s discuss this, bring our son SO THAT I CAN SEE HIM. If you don’t want to leave his side then don’t. But I want to resume living at home with my son in peace

I want proper discussion and arrangement BEFORE YOU OR ANYONE, DOES ANYTHING WITH,OR TO, MY SON. We were the ones that had a child (and we still have a home BY THE ABSOLUTE SKIN OF OUR TEETH!) We have responsibilities Deborah. You cannot ignore them or me! Steeling our child and maliciously and systematically chasing me from his life, IS NOT GOOD FOR OUR SON!

The expense of your actions are costing everyone around you, enormously. Me, your family, your son. The costs exceeds anything your earning potential or emotions can return. YOU ARE BEING AN EMOTIONAL AND FINANCIAL MENACE AND LIABILITY. 

 I want to father, love and care for my child. Not access to see him or a court order forcing you to permit me, BY BY YOUR OWN ACCORD IN GOOD FAITH OF WHAT IS RIGHT FOR OUR CHILD. I want to support my son, and you, at every opportunity. But I won’t be forced to support you and kept from my son. I did not subscribe to this and I am not consenting. You are forcing this onto me and our son without any discussion or my inclusion.

I want for my involvement in his life to be welcomed by you and UNCONDITIONAL. As I do you even though you have mental health issues and your father is a risk to children.YOU HAD A CHILD WITH ME. I AM ME! MY BEHAVIOUR AND TRUE SELF WILL NOT BE CONTROLLED BY USE OF MY SON AS A BARTERING CHIP!

I honesty don’t mean to be forceful, ‘harassing’ or go out my way to mess with you and upset you. I don’t mean what I say in anger and I regret anything I’ve done in my distressed state. But taking my son from me and my family and keeping him from us for months is inhumane.

YOU HAVE LIED ABOUT ME, YOU STOLE MY SON, YOU ARE ATTACKING ME, YOU ARE KEEPING ME FROM HIS LIFE, YOU ARE IGNORING ME. IT’S EMOTIONAL TORTURE, ITS ABUSE OF MY CHILD, ITS MALICIOUS…..ITS LIVING HELL AND YET YOU CONTINUE!

You hold the ace. You can get away with what your doing to me and our child. I’m powerless, he’s defences. But I will go on appealing to you forever TO STOP HURTING US BOTH IN THIS CRUEL CRUEL WAY.

MILO WILL EVENTUALLY DISCOVER MY CAMPAIGN.  HE WILL LEARN THAT HE WAS ABDUCTED FROM HIS HOME AND FATHER, KEPT FROM HIS HOME AND FATHER WHILE I WAS CRIMINALISED FOR WANTING TO SEE HIM.

HOW CAN WANTING TO SEE MY SON BE A CRIME? IF IT IS THEN I CHOSE TO BE AN OUTLAW, BECAUSE I WILL NOT STOP TRYING TO SEE MY SON.

Why are you doing this, why do you want this for our son? 
Why does anyone claiming to care for my son want this for him?

I am still being very restraint, expressly denying my consent, peacefully protesting against everything your doing AND simply appealing to you, every day to stop being so unmerciful. You’re ruining me and my sons life and peace by attacking our bond. A BOND BETWEEN A FATHER AND HIS SON!

OUR BOND WILL NOT BREAK. I’VE WISHED IT AWAY TO STOP HURTING AND IT WONT BREAK. SO ITS DAY AFTER DAY OF TORTURE HAVING YOU AND YOUR COMMUNITY  JUMP UP AND DOWN ON OUR BOND BY KEEPING US APART!

I haven’t retaliated with nothing much other than words, but you are putting me in a corner Deborah, where I will be forced to fight. Legally and lawfully.Put yourself in my position. I have been advised by police (or told if you don’t understand legalise) to stop attempting to see my son by appealing to you, or face criminal charges. WHAT ORWELLIAN STATE DO YOU ALL THINK I THINK BRITAIN IS? 

I certainly won’t take this lame advice from the police into any consideration. I have chosen NOT to be drawn into your games and perversion of the justice system. I have chosen NOT TO STOP contacting you. Lawfully I am sound and legally my pursuit of action can be considered reasonable under the circumstances your creating. If you can’t handle being called a child abuser and child abductor THE STOP ABUSING MY CHILD AND RETURN HIM TO WHERE YOU ABDUCTED HIM FROM! You are attempting to deceive everyone and in turn you are escalating this situation to a ridiculous level.

I only said things wouldn’t be good between us if you proceeded to register our son’s birth without me on the birth certificate. THIS IS ALL. THIS IS MY CRIME. THIS IS WHY I RETURN HOME TO FIND MY CHILD AND MONEY MISSING. RETURN HOME TO FIND YOU’D CHANGED THE LOCKS. THE REASON I’VE NOT SEEN MY SON IN MONTHS. THIS IS COMPLETE MADNESS.

I will continue to appeal to you and I fully expect you to find your spine and deal with me, you complete coward. Do it by your own accord and do what’s right by our son. STOP TRYING TO CRIMINALISE ME AND STOP PUTTING UP BARRIERS FOR ME SEEING MY SON.

I don’t know who’s misguided you, or why you and others have hijacked the future of MY ABDUCTED SON, but your evidently incapable of safeguarding our child from negative outside influence and harm. The mistake in play, of the complete fools around you, is THAT WE ARE NOT THE SAME. So deal directly with me, stop your games and let’s properly discuss and arranged OUR CHILD’S LIFE! You will not systematically cut me from his life in this way. I AM MILO’S FATHER! DEAL WITH ME!


You can get away with all sorts in this situation. That’s why trust, constitution, morals, values and standards are so important. You also need courage young lady! At the end of the day it’s OUR YOUNG FAMILY AND OUR CHILD YOUR HARMING! Can we stop escalating this fight of yours and destroying everything around us? We’re making a complete pigs ear of our child’s life, our responsibilities, ourselves as new parents, ours and our families lives.
SPEAK TO ME! 
DEAL WITH ME!
RETURN OUR SON!
STOP KEEPING US APART! 

HYWEL APBUCKLER
WILLING, LOVING AND CARING FATHER
(AND PROTECTOR) OF MILO ALLODIUS STEWART

NOT YOUR DAD & BROTHERS!
NOT YOUR BOYFRIENDS
!
NOT THE COUNCIL, POLICE OR COURTS
!


“Lbenslanger schicksalsschatz” (lifelong treasure of destiny) is not something that develops over time. It’s something that happens instantaneously. It courses through you like the water in a river after a storm. Filling you but emptying you all at once. You feel it throughout your body. In your hands, in your heart, in your stomach, in your skin. Have you ever felt this way about someone?